2014 … And Your 30 Day Challenge
“In truth, the dramatics of a life-determining experience are often unbelievably soft. It has so little akin to the bang, the flash, or the volcanic eruption that, at the moment it is made, the...
View ArticleThe 7 Elements of Potent Passion – The Anatomy of Intimacy
If life and the soul are sacred the human body is sacred; Leaves of Grass Walt Whitman A New Sexual … Continue reading →
View ArticleWhy Go To An Intimacy Retreat? A Man’s Perspective
A man’s viewpoint on deep and abiding love can be a rare find … and I believe, when found … a valuable opinion. It is not rare, because it is an uncommon occurrence, but rather men’s words are not...
View ArticleThe Erotic is NOT the Pornographic!
The subject said: The Erotic as Power The email read: “You will love this.” My dear friend Jim, who knows my passion and commitment for people to discover what culture has failed to teach them about...
View ArticleDo You Have Marriage Insurance?
Nearly every month one of the therapists I supervise will staff a case with me of a couple who is separating or divorcing because they didn’t know how to take care of their relationship and they didn’t...
View ArticleA Letter to my Son on the Eve of His Wedding
Ever wonder what a marriage, family, sex and intimacy therapist might say to one of her children as they were about to get married? Let me give you just a little peek … I recently had an...
View ArticleWho is Having the Best Sex? What Research (not the media) Says
We see this question on magazine covers lining grocery counters every day. I read studies looking at the numbers all the time. Many of the studies focus on frequency of intercourse. But how good is...
View ArticleMaking Sex Ed Easy …. #1 in a 4 Part Blog Series: 12 Guidelines for...
Being a parent is a humbling endurance event … every day. One minute it can be incredibly rewarding and the next incredibly frustrating. So often when my kids were little I felt like I was flying by...
View ArticleMaking Sex-Ed Easy … #3 in a Blog Series: Parenting 4 – 8 year olds … H.E.L.P!
During the years when my daughter was 5 and my son was 10, both of them straddling this particular stage, we went through a period where we would sit atop my son’s Captain’s bed and read this book...
View ArticleMy Love List About My Husband … and why gratefulness is good for the heart
Evenings at our house are rather hilarious … you see, neither of us cook. Kids are now gone and so is the sense of obligation to fix dinner … or go to the grocery store. The beloved and I will walk in...
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